Why Circumcision is a Gift to Your Son — Even if It Doesn’t Feel Like It Right Now
(3-minute read)
For many modern parents, the question of circumcision can feel overwhelming. Some feel like it’s altering their child’s body in a way that isn’t “necessary,” and that sentiment is completely valid. After all, the idea of making a permanent decision for your newborn—especially one involving such a sensitive area—naturally brings hesitation.
But let’s step back and consider this: there are other parts of the body that aren’t strictly necessary, but can still cause serious issues down the line. Take the appendix, for example. It serves no essential function in modern life, yet it can become inflamed and burst, requiring emergency surgery. The same goes for tonsils. Though they help filter bacteria in early childhood, many people have to get them removed because of recurring infections or breathing issues.
Circumcision is similar. While it may not be “necessary” in the immediate sense, it’s a preventative step that can save your son from very real physical challenges, hygiene concerns, and even medical expenses later in life. Here are three key reasons why circumcision is a meaningful, lasting gift to your son:
1. It Makes Hygiene Easier — Especially When It Matters Most
Let’s talk about real life. Imagine your son as a teen—playing sports, sweating through dirty equipment, rushing through showers (if he even takes one). If you've ever tried to get a teenager to consistently brush their teeth, clean their room, or put their laundry in the hamper, you know how hard it is to get them to care about cleanliness. Now imagine asking that same teen to take extra time to thoroughly clean under foreskin every single day. It's not impossible—but it’s unlikely.
Circumcision removes the need for that extra hygiene step, helping reduce the risk of odor, infection, and general discomfort during those already chaotic and hormonal years.
2. His Future Wife Will Thank You
As a Mohel who specializes in newborn circumcision, I’ve heard countless stories from adults—both men and their partners—about the challenges of remaining uncircumcised. From chronic bacterial infections to recurring yeast infections, these are real and very uncomfortable issues many couples face.
Most women will experience at least one yeast infection in their life. It’s not something anyone wants to repeat—especially when it’s due to preventable hygiene issues caused by excess bacteria buildup in an unclean foreskin. Many couples eventually resort to adult circumcision, which leads us to the final point...
3. Circumcision as an Adult is a Major Medical Procedure
When performed during infancy, circumcision is simple, safe, and quick—with a healing process that’s typically complete within 7–10 days. As an adult? It’s considered major surgery. It must be done in a hospital, costs thousands of dollars, and involves weeks of painful recovery.
We often hear from men in their 20s, 30s, or even 40s who wish their parents had made the decision for them as babies—when it would’ve been easy and pain-free. Instead, they face discomfort, embarrassment, and complicated procedures to deal with something that could’ve been handled in their first weeks of life.
Final Thoughts
Circumcision isn’t about altering your son’s body for no reason. It’s about equipping him for a cleaner, safer, and more comfortable life—with fewer health concerns, fewer hygiene challenges, and greater peace of mind for him and his future partner.
It's a choice made with love. One that your son may not remember—but will one day appreciate.